Well, we were chugging along and BAM...turbulence and we are crashing. Got son's bank statements..Bank probably shouldn't give them to me, but teller has brother dying from meth addiction. Our son has withdrawn hundreds of dollars from ATM. Now..weird, he buys his food at work with the card, 1.25 for his meal..he works full time at fast food restaurant where they are promoting him. He admits to paying guys rent that he knows we wouldnt approve of..but the rest says I DONT KNOW????? Drug tested him...came back amphetamines...not his MO..but, something is going on. SWEARS he will test clean in court next week.??WHAT??? He is signing on to jeuvenile probation for possession of a suboxone during his drugging time....he is clean from opiates. I found he has not been faithfully taking the anti depressant either. SOOO, where is the money going? He has no car, walks to store with brother, his bros say he just buys his cigarettes with card..yes..on statement. Once, withdrawl 2hrs away..99% he wasnt there????? SO if hes dealing, where is the stuff, and why does he have NO cash? DOesnt even carry a full wallet..debits everything, I found out he buys co workers food if they are short..but 500.00 in a month???? SO we told him he had to go since he has two days off...girlfriend picked him up and took to her families home. Husband in FULL DETACHMENT mode....he is so dedicated tojob..Im all for him moving, but how to get to work?? Sick..and getting sicker by minute.