I don't accept excuses and difficult child knows it. first day back to school and his normal IEP Teacher is out. So he decideds first to put fingers in ears so he don't have to listen to teacher, then stands up walks around class and refuses to sit down. then decides just to ignore everyone in class. this all happened this morning then afternoon perfect child. when asked he lied to me said he didn't do it. then when I called him on it bunch of excuses.. so time out for lying, then room playing till bed time no TV, and bedtime 1 hr earlier since he must have been tired this morning. thanks for letting me vent pulling out hair now..