dashcat
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I have been struggling recently (getting a bit better day by day!) with some wistful feelings about what might have been with my difficult child... One of the things that seems to trigger these feelings is all the Back to School ads, store displays and Facebook postings that I've been seeing.
Back to School was always a happy and hopeful time here. She loved school and - even as her difficult child-dom emerged - seemed always hopeful about a clean slate.
My niece, who does not have a difficult child but whose son came out to the family as a juinior in high school - is triggered terrbily by the mother-son dance at weddings. She ocmpletely accepts her son and is the most loving mom in th world, but that dance floods her with what she thought might lie ahead for her son. She actually leaves the room during this part of the ceremny.
The song "baby girl" by Sugarland gets to me. daughter got the cd right the summer before her junior year and we would sing along with it on our way to and from soccer practrice. it was the last summer of innocence.
I love my difficult child and have worked very hard at accepting/detaching. But, being human, I have my moments.
What are your triggers?
Dash
Back to School was always a happy and hopeful time here. She loved school and - even as her difficult child-dom emerged - seemed always hopeful about a clean slate.
My niece, who does not have a difficult child but whose son came out to the family as a juinior in high school - is triggered terrbily by the mother-son dance at weddings. She ocmpletely accepts her son and is the most loving mom in th world, but that dance floods her with what she thought might lie ahead for her son. She actually leaves the room during this part of the ceremny.
The song "baby girl" by Sugarland gets to me. daughter got the cd right the summer before her junior year and we would sing along with it on our way to and from soccer practrice. it was the last summer of innocence.
I love my difficult child and have worked very hard at accepting/detaching. But, being human, I have my moments.
What are your triggers?
Dash