Donna -
That statement needed a "shoots coffee" warning. OMG.
Well I was in NYC doing a model shoot for Guess jeans. It was Spring and the Cherry Blossoms were so intoxicating in Central park. We took a break from the shoot and some of us girls wandered into the seemingly nicest pub for an afternoon toddy.
And in he walked. You could only see his outline for the back lighting in the dark bar - my eyes had not adjusted. He was average height, a little longer than shoulder length golden blond hair with hints of silver, deep pools of glacier ice for eyes, and rugged features. When he removed his leather jacket it was apparent he was a true biker. His tattoos were as colorful as his words were smooth.
I caught his glance and we stared. I knew he was a bad boy. I didn't care. He nodded to the bartender, sent me a drink. I in kind sent him a beer. We never spoke.
I returned home three months later to find him sitting in my living room. He was a friend of a friend, and our eyes met again. No words were spoken once again, and he left out of my life on a Pan/Shovel custom job Harley. It was so loud when he turned it over, it jumped my heart.
A few weeks later - I ran out of gas and called a mutual friend. They sent him instead. He presented me with a cricket box, and asked me to dinner.
I accepted, and we talked into the wee hours of the morning. Loves first kiss was like dynamite.
We started dating after that - I knew him about a year before my son met him. I knew him 3 years before he proposed. He brought me breakfast in bed one morning, and on the breakfast tray was a ring box. In it was the goddiest, piece of glass hunka-junk with glue all over it stuck to an adjustable ring band. He got down on one knee and said "I know it's not the ring of your dreams, but....." and I stared at this cruddy ring thinking - "Is he out of his pea picking mind? he has GOT to be kidding, I'm not doing the 'it's all I have now cigar band thing' I've already divorced from the "i'll give you the moon if you wait junk- and about the time I made a face he pulled a beanie donkey out from under his shirt and on the end of the beanie donkeys hoof was a beautiful 1ct. marquis cut white gold ring.
Then on bended knee he said "If you'll have me I'd like to spend the rest of my life with you." And I accepted. That was 8 years ago. And while we're not married we share a home, a life, problems, joys and hearts.
For me he is loves true kiss.
Oh and the part about being in NYC and working for Guess jeans - that's not true. But it kept ya going didn't it?
I did meet him in a pub- and the rest of it is true. And he's been a fantastic dad for difficult child, where most step-dads aren't - we're very blessed.