Can you all stand another one? Last year husband insisted that we HAD to go to Disney World on vacation. We've done it many times (we have a time share down there) and it's become something that I just don't look forward to because of difficult child. It's too much for him. He tantrums over the smallest things and quite frankly, it's no vacation for me because he starts his difficult child nonsense and everyone walks away and leaves me to deal with it. It was a big fight between husband and me last year because I wanted to use our timeshare week to go to Vero Beach. Quiet. Soothing. No running around. It sounded perfect to me. husband said that he didn't want to do that because he didn't like the beach. Well, I told him that I didn't like going to WDW anymore so why should I have to do what I don't want to do if he feels that he shouldn't have to do what he doesn't like? We eventually compromised. He promised that if I agreed to go to WDW last year we would go to Very Beach this year. The other day be brings up vacation and starts going on and on about going to WDW and when are we going to go. I reminded him what he promised me about Vero Beach. Apparently, that went right out the window because it's not what he wants. Not only did he already decide when we were going, but he told the kids that we were going, asked his parents if they wanted to go with us again this year, and he called my sister and her husband because the week he wants to go is also the week they are going to be down there and how great would it be to meet up with them down there? And he CAN"T understand why I'm mad about this!! So now, he decides that because difficult child refuses to go anywhere except WDW, we can't go anywhere and it's all MY fault. First of all, why is he giving a 13 year old that much power to decide where the family will go on vacation? And why are my needs always the ones that get thrown out the window?