BusynMember
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Does this strike anyone as odd or am I just overly sensitive?
Everyone knows my husband changed my life, is the love of my life and still rocks my world. I would never want to be with anyone else. We have been together over twenty years snd raised two great kids. Having saud this, he is not handsome (to me he is) or rich.
I know somebody who knows our story well and, when referring to my husband, has said several times, "He is not for me, but I think he is great for you."
I never asked her if he was right for her. I am not mad or anything, but just always saw this as somehow "off." Is that first part of the sentence necessary? Am I just nitpicking?
This person has disasterous relationships so maybe its a compliment, even though she doesnt mean it to be...lol.
I just wondered if this strikes others in a weird way as it always did me. Or if anyone thinks this is just me and that i should get over it. I am very protective of my husband and kids so maybe thats it.
If anyone has feedback...that would help me sort this out. If not, thanks for "listening." I guess its petty of me??? I think about this a lot when with this person. She is very careful about what she says and does not have trouble communicating.....
Everyone knows my husband changed my life, is the love of my life and still rocks my world. I would never want to be with anyone else. We have been together over twenty years snd raised two great kids. Having saud this, he is not handsome (to me he is) or rich.
I know somebody who knows our story well and, when referring to my husband, has said several times, "He is not for me, but I think he is great for you."
I never asked her if he was right for her. I am not mad or anything, but just always saw this as somehow "off." Is that first part of the sentence necessary? Am I just nitpicking?
This person has disasterous relationships so maybe its a compliment, even though she doesnt mean it to be...lol.
I just wondered if this strikes others in a weird way as it always did me. Or if anyone thinks this is just me and that i should get over it. I am very protective of my husband and kids so maybe thats it.
If anyone has feedback...that would help me sort this out. If not, thanks for "listening." I guess its petty of me??? I think about this a lot when with this person. She is very careful about what she says and does not have trouble communicating.....
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