Irishkalleene
riding the roller coaster
Hey, again it's been awhile since last post. Last time was probably when B was moving back home to try tech college 3 yr ago now??? As I predicted he did not make it in school. Now has student debts he's not paying. Has had several stupid driving violations, but thru it all has continued working.
I've put up with all his krap while I spent the past grueling 2 yrs. trying to make a successful job change and being unemployed twice. OK now I'm finally settled.
His constant refrain is I don't have any money. When he brought home a car he said he paid $100 for, that needs to be totally repaired & refurbished, I again asked him if he had car insurance for regular car. No he doesn't. I then told him he had to be out by July 1. Obviously he is never going to get "IT".
Can't stand his mess, his disrespect, his whole way of 'life'. He had his shot at school. It's time to get back out on his own. I even brought home boxes and hung a note on them saying they were for his move. I've reminded him that July 1 he's out.
B Called me yesterday to say he had just gotten fired. Oh swell!!! As if he never has any money - don't know what he does with his pay checks, not paying loans, never has car insurance, has creditors after him......... and now there is no paycheck. I had figured that even if he didn't have the security deposit I would give him that just to get him out of here......... Now how is this going to go???
He said yesterday he'll take a month off. This am I texted him telling him to follow the good advice he'd given me during one of my unemployed months - - get the job then take the week off.
I want him out. I will be reminding him think I'll put a sign up - that July 1 the lock gets changed. But still - how the heck do I toss him out again (kicked him out at 17yr.)without the means $$$????? I refuse to deal with his messy-life forever. But, am concerned. Was also concerned bout getting him out under regular circumstances -if he'd freak and break anything. Don't think I can stand to have any more of this fun! I don't seem to have the backbone I did when he was younger.
Thanks for listening.....................
I've put up with all his krap while I spent the past grueling 2 yrs. trying to make a successful job change and being unemployed twice. OK now I'm finally settled.
His constant refrain is I don't have any money. When he brought home a car he said he paid $100 for, that needs to be totally repaired & refurbished, I again asked him if he had car insurance for regular car. No he doesn't. I then told him he had to be out by July 1. Obviously he is never going to get "IT".
Can't stand his mess, his disrespect, his whole way of 'life'. He had his shot at school. It's time to get back out on his own. I even brought home boxes and hung a note on them saying they were for his move. I've reminded him that July 1 he's out.
B Called me yesterday to say he had just gotten fired. Oh swell!!! As if he never has any money - don't know what he does with his pay checks, not paying loans, never has car insurance, has creditors after him......... and now there is no paycheck. I had figured that even if he didn't have the security deposit I would give him that just to get him out of here......... Now how is this going to go???
He said yesterday he'll take a month off. This am I texted him telling him to follow the good advice he'd given me during one of my unemployed months - - get the job then take the week off.
I want him out. I will be reminding him think I'll put a sign up - that July 1 the lock gets changed. But still - how the heck do I toss him out again (kicked him out at 17yr.)without the means $$$????? I refuse to deal with his messy-life forever. But, am concerned. Was also concerned bout getting him out under regular circumstances -if he'd freak and break anything. Don't think I can stand to have any more of this fun! I don't seem to have the backbone I did when he was younger.
Thanks for listening.....................