thank you will LET his mother live???
Ok, so I know your deadline is past but really, we should turn this into a game of sorts don't you think? Who can come up with the "best" positive goal for difficult child?
Let's see, safety is the main thing. So how could you write that as a positive goal -
When frustrated, difficult child will only break the dishes purchased for this purpose after asking her mother for permission in 9 out of 10 trials.
Mmm no.
When upset, difficult child will go to her room when asked and stay there for 2 minutes in 9 out of 10 trials.
Better.
When upset, difficult child will go to her room when asked without touching, hitting, pinching, biting, kicking or otherwise assaulting DS in 9 out of 10 trials.
Getting in the groove here.
When enraged, difficult child will leave the house without assaulting a family member in 9 out of 10 trials.
When enraged, difficult child will leave the house without assaulting a family member and voluntarily return home the same day in 9 out of 10 trials.
There. How's that for a start? she asked smiling brightly.
LOL! I love it!!! Too funny!