Difficult Child has been nothing but ignoring me. He called me for lunch, then stood me up. He only calls or texts if he wants me to do something for him. YET, the mother in me struggles with not buying him gifts for Christmas. Sigh. Wish I could get over it. Is it enabling? He needs a new cell phone (honestly, his is four years old and a hand-me-down), mostly because his keeps non-functioning and then he's on the phone to me complaining. Other than that, he barely speaks. Tell me, is it enabling?