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Mom? What's a difficult child?
Blech!!! Poor husband... 2 of his childhood friends, that he spent a lot of time with, both of their Father's passed away last week. He is was supossed to go to the funeral's. But with K and he just got back from being gone 2 weeks... so he had to let them know he could not attend . ALL of his friends went.
SO then Friday, his half-Sister in Indy, her Mom passed of Pancreatic Cancer... he should go to the Funeral... he is still debating. It is Thursday, but we are supposed to fly out on Wednesday next week for K's new psychiatrist...
SO then Monday, phone call from his Grandpas nurse, (his parents are somewhere in Mexico) He is being rushed to the Hospital... He has to call his Aunt in Indy to drive up to N Indy... So we waited to yesterday to see what was going on... he was releases.
They think it is anxiety... he is just freaking out about everything, loosing his wife, can't drive, I think just getting old, reality! he is 85. Sad.
He is starting to slip...
So poor husband is trying to stay positive but he has no idea what to do... he would have to fly out and try to get back here, from his sisters Mom funeral...
Last time he left it triggered K pretty bad, it was just 2 weeks ago. He also has to leave pretty soon after we get back for 10 days!!!
So he is trying to skip the funeral... His Father is the only one who seems to care, they have not been married in over 40 years!!!
husband sister fully understands, her son has issues. We sent a huge basket and are flying her out here when she is ready for a break.
Should husband go? I told him to do what ever makes him feel less guilt and what he thinks is the right thing.
This is also costing A LOT...and no his Dad can not help out with price... we end up helping him out sometimes...
ANy ideas.
Thanks
SO then Friday, his half-Sister in Indy, her Mom passed of Pancreatic Cancer... he should go to the Funeral... he is still debating. It is Thursday, but we are supposed to fly out on Wednesday next week for K's new psychiatrist...
SO then Monday, phone call from his Grandpas nurse, (his parents are somewhere in Mexico) He is being rushed to the Hospital... He has to call his Aunt in Indy to drive up to N Indy... So we waited to yesterday to see what was going on... he was releases.
They think it is anxiety... he is just freaking out about everything, loosing his wife, can't drive, I think just getting old, reality! he is 85. Sad.
He is starting to slip...
So poor husband is trying to stay positive but he has no idea what to do... he would have to fly out and try to get back here, from his sisters Mom funeral...
Last time he left it triggered K pretty bad, it was just 2 weeks ago. He also has to leave pretty soon after we get back for 10 days!!!
So he is trying to skip the funeral... His Father is the only one who seems to care, they have not been married in over 40 years!!!
husband sister fully understands, her son has issues. We sent a huge basket and are flying her out here when she is ready for a break.
Should husband go? I told him to do what ever makes him feel less guilt and what he thinks is the right thing.
This is also costing A LOT...and no his Dad can not help out with price... we end up helping him out sometimes...
ANy ideas.
Thanks