shellyd67
Active Member
I am trying to make a long story short.
husband has some really screwed up brothers and sisters (really screwed up) anyhow his one particular brother has an adult son who lives at home and drinks and does drugs, has no job, comes and goes as he pleases and has lots of friends and strange women in and out of brother in law's house.
Not to mention nephew has a son of his own who he does not see nor support.
He is constantly in trouble with the law and spends alot of time in and out of a courtroom.
brother in law is always complaining about his son, how he borrows money, no job, court, cops, etc ...
So last night husband and I told him he needs to kick son out ! Yeah it is easy for me to say my kids are minors, blah , blah , blah
husband's brother was mad and said " He is my son" I shut up then and husband went on to say you are enabling this kids and doing him no good !
husband's other brother was present during the conversation and said nothing. He has a child who also is a hot lazy mess and he does nothing either. His son is dating a girl much younger (4 years and a minor)
I just think they all stink as parents but do feel guilty for giving our "advice"
Should we have shut our big mouths ?
Shelly
husband has some really screwed up brothers and sisters (really screwed up) anyhow his one particular brother has an adult son who lives at home and drinks and does drugs, has no job, comes and goes as he pleases and has lots of friends and strange women in and out of brother in law's house.
Not to mention nephew has a son of his own who he does not see nor support.
He is constantly in trouble with the law and spends alot of time in and out of a courtroom.
brother in law is always complaining about his son, how he borrows money, no job, court, cops, etc ...
So last night husband and I told him he needs to kick son out ! Yeah it is easy for me to say my kids are minors, blah , blah , blah
husband's brother was mad and said " He is my son" I shut up then and husband went on to say you are enabling this kids and doing him no good !
husband's other brother was present during the conversation and said nothing. He has a child who also is a hot lazy mess and he does nothing either. His son is dating a girl much younger (4 years and a minor)
I just think they all stink as parents but do feel guilty for giving our "advice"
Should we have shut our big mouths ?
Shelly