mother in law sent easy child $100 and a note that said she was thinking of her and to use the money for textbook expenses....and....get this, she signed it 'Grandma J'. This woman has NEVER, EVER acknowledged easy child or difficult child or me for our birthdays and barely squeezed out a gift for Christmas. She's never ever sent so much as a card and even when she's been at our house for a birthday (by accident) she still doesn't wish a happy b'day! AND, she has NEVER, EVER referred to my girls as her grands, NEVER. I once referred to her as 'Grandma J' and she corrected me and said, 'J is fine'. She has never wanted to be a part of our (mine and girls) lives. Never wanted to be 'Grandma' to my girls even though shes known them since they were 4 and 6!!! Why now? Why all of a sudden? I truly believe this is a part of her manipulative plan to get into my house, omg, this woman is shameless. I wish I could tell easy child to send her the money back with a thank you but that it's too much. What a b***h.