hi to everyone!!
so older difficult child was sooo soo busy while mom and little difficult child were getting evaluation done past 3 dys in another state.
i came back to find her hair cut and dyed black, and she has a boyfriend who is 17 she is 14 will be 15 in may he drives.........
he invited her to jr. prom of which will be in party bus yea ok so shes not goung to that.
so i thought wow she works fast i was out of state and she was off my radar for 3/4 days at best and look at all she achieved........lol
so i said ok have boyfriend come and meet me and kids. i can't tell her not to see him then she'll be jumping in that car with him before i can so no. so hopefully my presence and boyfriend's will keep him in check. we have several sex talks and the importance of when that time comes to com eto meso i can bring her to dr adn get her the pill.
she hates me now told her no to jr. prom. he'll be a senior in september her she's in 9th grade and would be entering tenth then.
so amazing came home bought food cleaned house it was disgusting haven't stopped yet. so relaxing to be back in the mix.
so anyway i'm sure many of you have gone thru this yourselves not easy, huh...?? i remember my boyfriend at 14 he was 17 and drove he was a real piece of junk. this kid sounds nice but bottom line is he's too old. so hopefully her fascination will end if i don't forbid her. yet she tends to be ilke mom the long term girl relationship thing. her last boyfriend lasted 7 mos. nice kid had him over alot they were never allowed to be alone seh dumped him when we moved here.
its a shame she's always searching for that closeness iwth a guy just like mom did early on. she doens't know her dad. she isnt' from my marriage. yet my ex and her are kinda close he helped me raise her and still does to an extent has had many talks with her when i need him to, etc. it's the only dad she's ever known.
so we'll see how this progresses..........never a dull moment
Jen
so older difficult child was sooo soo busy while mom and little difficult child were getting evaluation done past 3 dys in another state.
i came back to find her hair cut and dyed black, and she has a boyfriend who is 17 she is 14 will be 15 in may he drives.........
he invited her to jr. prom of which will be in party bus yea ok so shes not goung to that.
so i thought wow she works fast i was out of state and she was off my radar for 3/4 days at best and look at all she achieved........lol
so i said ok have boyfriend come and meet me and kids. i can't tell her not to see him then she'll be jumping in that car with him before i can so no. so hopefully my presence and boyfriend's will keep him in check. we have several sex talks and the importance of when that time comes to com eto meso i can bring her to dr adn get her the pill.
she hates me now told her no to jr. prom. he'll be a senior in september her she's in 9th grade and would be entering tenth then.
so amazing came home bought food cleaned house it was disgusting haven't stopped yet. so relaxing to be back in the mix.
so anyway i'm sure many of you have gone thru this yourselves not easy, huh...?? i remember my boyfriend at 14 he was 17 and drove he was a real piece of junk. this kid sounds nice but bottom line is he's too old. so hopefully her fascination will end if i don't forbid her. yet she tends to be ilke mom the long term girl relationship thing. her last boyfriend lasted 7 mos. nice kid had him over alot they were never allowed to be alone seh dumped him when we moved here.
its a shame she's always searching for that closeness iwth a guy just like mom did early on. she doens't know her dad. she isnt' from my marriage. yet my ex and her are kinda close he helped me raise her and still does to an extent has had many talks with her when i need him to, etc. it's the only dad she's ever known.
so we'll see how this progresses..........never a dull moment
Jen