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he doesn't KNOW how to use the computer. Never has. I have begged him to read the emails from teachers. he has to have difficult child bring up the emails. he has NO clue.
He never had a camera phone, or anything that connected to the web before. This is all new.
There are no magazines and such around the house.
Addicted to sex??? This is someone who hasn't touched me since difficult child was born. FOURTEEN years. Not so much as a hug or kiss. Was different before difficult child was born.
And easy child, he isn't husband's biological son. I met husband when easy child was 3.
Do you think it has something to do with me being pregnant and birth? although he never acknowledged I was even pregnant. It wasn't until Thanksgiving day that he said "WOW - you are really going to have a baby aren't you" difficult child was born two weeks later!!!! He never touched me when I was pregnant either. Not even to feel him kick.
He once told me when we were dating "I don't ever want kids, I don't want to do to my child what my father did to me". (found out years later that his father was a drunk and beat the boys) I guess that can explain why he goes so overboard in the opposite direction with difficult child. He should of said "I don't ever want a wife, I don't want to do to MY wife what my father did to his" - husband's mother left when he was three. Dad remarried and she left also. After the boys witnessed his father beating her and knew they were next. His father died in a one car drunken accident when he was a teen.
I am just overwhelmed. So hurt I can't even yell. Sad, disappointed. To the point I cannot even look at him. Or talk to him. Didn't raise my voice. Just laid out the papers (phone bill - details) and said here it is. He said he doesn't care what it says he didn't do it that many times. Oh well, look it over. Can't concentrate, my heart aches. This is the last thing I would of ever thought of. Maybe the last straw.
Do pain pills hurt an aching heart?
He never had a camera phone, or anything that connected to the web before. This is all new.
There are no magazines and such around the house.
Addicted to sex??? This is someone who hasn't touched me since difficult child was born. FOURTEEN years. Not so much as a hug or kiss. Was different before difficult child was born.
And easy child, he isn't husband's biological son. I met husband when easy child was 3.
Do you think it has something to do with me being pregnant and birth? although he never acknowledged I was even pregnant. It wasn't until Thanksgiving day that he said "WOW - you are really going to have a baby aren't you" difficult child was born two weeks later!!!! He never touched me when I was pregnant either. Not even to feel him kick.
He once told me when we were dating "I don't ever want kids, I don't want to do to my child what my father did to me". (found out years later that his father was a drunk and beat the boys) I guess that can explain why he goes so overboard in the opposite direction with difficult child. He should of said "I don't ever want a wife, I don't want to do to MY wife what my father did to his" - husband's mother left when he was three. Dad remarried and she left also. After the boys witnessed his father beating her and knew they were next. His father died in a one car drunken accident when he was a teen.
I am just overwhelmed. So hurt I can't even yell. Sad, disappointed. To the point I cannot even look at him. Or talk to him. Didn't raise my voice. Just laid out the papers (phone bill - details) and said here it is. He said he doesn't care what it says he didn't do it that many times. Oh well, look it over. Can't concentrate, my heart aches. This is the last thing I would of ever thought of. Maybe the last straw.
Do pain pills hurt an aching heart?