Your kid uses a knife on you 3 times to intimidate, rob, or otherwise 'bully' you, you sit in court and listen to them blame you for it so often you lose your job, life savings, and home; and you still love your kid and want what's best for him because you know that a lot of this wouldn't have happened if they had people who were really qualified to deal with difficult children in the system instead of just hiring the newest, least expensive people and they did that because MH issues and juvie issues aren't important enough to voters to result in politicians approving funding in these areas.