This is only directed to myself and only myself...I have read so many of your stories on here but we ourselves only know the crannies of the details on our lives. I have thought and thought about this and here is my conclusion on 'mine" - All this, the problem I am having with my son, is at the least, half my fault...yes he is 28 years old and he was not working, almost burnt the house down, disrespectful, stole from me and others in my home, wrecked my car , came home drunk...but you know what, this is partly me to blame..I raised him to be spoiled..I am the one when he got into a pickle I bailed him out...it was me that drove 50 miles to get him these new shoes that came out and you could not find them anywhere around here...it was me me me!! So now he is a grown human being and a result of what I have done. I just cannot help thinking this way either. I taught him to be an Azz...and then when he grows up into an azz I kick him out of the house..something just don't seem right about this! I should have never had kids...I just have just stuck with my critters...I feel like I have made the biggest mistake with him and if only I had taught him there were always consequences, good and bad, and a better work ethic....I don't know anything except I just suck!