My son recently started therapy and the testing revealed that most of what he is dealing get with is due to life experiences. Which I do agree with. My son already blames us for messing him up so this is just fuel for him though perhaps therapy can help him. He recently broke up with his girlfriend so now his friendship pool is really reduced. He has an apt but constantly wants to stay with us which I cannot stand. It makes me very anxious when he is there because he is not working (says he is not able to right now) won't really help out, sits in his underwear smoking pot ( which I do not condone but my husband does, the pot part) and verbally gets abusive towards me if I say anything so....I told my husband he cannot stay with us anymore. I am hoping that therapy will help him become less anxious about work so he will go but I cannot make him. The day of reckoning will be upon him when his money runs out. Why am I so anxious about this? It is driving me crazy!