I don't know if any of you have had to deal with this but I would appreciate some feed back. easy child is off in college and since she left we are not as close as we use to be -- part of the reason is her boyfriend. easy child and difficult child use to be close when they were little until we got custody of the two oldest kids. Lately she has been having a huge attitude about difficult child. She doesn't want to talk to him or see him and she told us that if he is still living here during the summer that she will not be. Both have done things to the other that was wrong and believe me neither one has clean hands. difficult child has been trying to apologize to her and make amends. He really realized this time that he was gone that he does have a family that loves him and wants to be closer to them. Grandparents--aunts -uncles-cousins-sisters and brother. He is really hurt that easy child won't even let him try. She is blaming him for her cd's being missing but he says he didn't do it and she didn't notice they were gone until 3-4 days after she went back to school and she always leaves them in her car unlocked and when I mention that to her she insists that difficult child took them but she doesn't have proof. It hurts me that easy child will not even try to let difficult child make amends but I don't know what to do about it. difficult child is starting to feel like no one cares and is losing hope.Anybody got any ideas?