I am here, sorry.... I have been flying under the radar. S2BX got out of jail b4 the holidays, briefly tried to take his life and is now slumming with his girlfriend from rehab #4. I do not know if he snoops or not on the boards, not like it would matter. He doesn't have a leg to stand on.
Both difficult child's saw him briefly on Xmas day, which I know I have his girlfriend to thank for that. I think both boys pretty much have accepted that they are the last thing on their Father's list.
S2BX and his girlfriend (this is the woman who called me over the summer and said she was his "accountability" partner) are a match made in heaven, they're drinking together, fight with each other daily and my S2BX convinced her to stop taking her medications (she's bi-polar). How do I know all this you ask? Her husband called me this past weekend. The poor man wants his wife back, it's scarey to see I was in that place once, not anymore, good riddens! I go to court this month and it's all over! I can't wait!