The not listening is driving me batty! It is like talking to a wall. He doesnt even respond to us when we speak to him. He hears us he is choosing not to listen or respond. The tantrums and violence are at a high. Everytime he hits me or throws something or anything along those lines, I carry him up to his room to thrash and go crazy in there and then I wait 3 minutes after he has calmed down to get him out. It does not change anything. this has been going on for weeks now. They say his test scores of language are right where he needs to be. SO WHAT! Who cares, it doesnt make one bit of difference in his behavior or how he is at home. He still makes horrible repetitive noises all day long and imitates kids at the therapy school all day long. We still cant go anywhere with him or do anything fun with him because he has horrid tantrums everywhere we go. I have put a call in to the neurologist to see if they have any suggestions because his therapists no longer know what to do for us at home. His therapy never has and never will transfer into the home. I go to therapy and lead it the last hour everyday and there is still no difference. I am just fed up!