Wow. This is really good. Wish I had seen it b4.
Amazing about the dad.
And spooky about the computer expertise. difficult child is like that... his friends won't come over if he's grounded off the computer, so their ill manners take over where his Asperger's kicks in! And his bdad is a computer tech, and was kicked out of the military and fired from a cpl jobs for drug use. I haven't told difficult child that, though.