I appreciate all the help just today. And I understand there will be difference in advice as everyone has different situations and don't have the same experiences. I'm just glad I know there are others dealing with this, although I'm sorry at the same time. We are working on getting him evaluated just not sure what is available here as we just moved here not long ago.Hi Crystal and welcome to our little corner of the world. As you can see we often have differing opinions, take what you can and don't worry about the rest.
Definitely I would start with having him evaluated by a multi-disciplinary team (a child therapist, a child psychiatrist, and a neuro-psychologist). These three together can give you a pretty good idea of what is going on with your child.
I'm sorry you are having to deal with all of this right now. Sending some welcoming hugs your way.