Hi, I posted on here several years ago about our daughter who was 18 with an abusive boyfriend, stealing from us, etc. Anyhow, she's continued to have a string of loser boyfriends and, surprise, is now pregnant (now she's 23). We let her move back in because she's pregnant and want her to have a stable environment. She mostly just sleeps here and spends most of her time at loser boyfriend's house (really his mom's house, he sits on the couch smoking weed all day). This is losers second kid - the first baby mama was living there and loser's mom bonded with the baby then the baby mama wised up a little and left and he doesn't even see the baby now (never mind supporting it). So, loser's mom doesn't want our daughter living there because she doesn't want the same to happen (to her). Anyhow, I don't know what's going to happen when the baby is born. I want to be self-sacrificing and all, but I don't have it in me to raise another baby. I see zero chance that loser and daughter are going to get it together and be good parents. I know letting her live here is not going to help her, but what about the baby? This situation is very complicated and I'm trying to find the right way forward, but honestly don't know what to do. I was planning to retire next year, but now I don't know if I can (and I REALLY want to). She been heavily involved with every drug you can imagine the last few years. She says she's not using during the pregnancy. My wife believes her, but I don't believe anything she says. She could tell me the world was round and I've have to check it out before I'd believe it. Thanks for listening.