This brings up different thoughts and emotions for me. I often worry that there isn't much I can do to fight DNA. Then there are other times I realize that my boys life is so much different than their mothers life and her mothers life. They are in a much more stable environment. Their bio maternal grandmother was arrested this weekend for aggrevated assault with a deadly weapon. I pulled the public report online and it says she caused bodily injury and threatened to cause serious bodily injury with a knife to her husband. The guy is a drunk and has beaten her before, so I can't say I blame her, for all I know it was self defense. I just wonder sometimes if this is the life my difficult children will choose one day. I hope not. On the positive side of things, this certainly helps us if she ever follows through on her threat to take us to court for grandparents rights. I pray my kids never have to be exposed to this family again. I don't know how husband survived it for 6 years. What a train wreck. I thank God that their bio cousin was taken from her mother as well and that both women are fixed and unable to have more children. No child should be subject to this daily.