Oh, I'm sorry, Kelly.
been there done that.
Let us know the kind of cancer, okay? Several of us have been there done that and can tell you what to expect.
As for me, I found that lunches out with-my girlfriends helped immensely. As did chocolate.
I found it very hard not to work, very discouraging. Work can be a kind of therapy, feeling like you have a sense of purpose. But then it can tire you out quickly, too, and then, there's the issue of all the employees with-their well meaning comments but you just don't want to talk to them any more.
Many hugs.