I was so glad to find this site !!! I have a 39 year old daughter who has 4 kids by different men. The oldest is 20,then there is a 17 year old, an 11 year old and a 2 year old little boy that is my heart string. The oldest ones dad lives in Florida and has a wife and new baby and doesn't have much to do with him. The 17 year old's father has absolutely nothing to do with him, the 11 year old lives with her dad and step mom and the little one lives with my daughter and her boyfriend (which is the baby's dad) I have been dealing with all this since she was 17. She was a great kid through high school....beautiful, popular, senior attendant, broke long jump records in track....then she got pregnant her senior year and it has been downhill ever since. She got pregnant again at 22 by a married man who really messed with her head. Then she got involved with another married man, who got a divorce and married her, and they had a little girl. She divorced him after 2 years, eventually met her present boyfriend and in a few months was pregnant once again, and now has a little boy who will be 3 and he is such a joy!!! He is so smart and funny and just a really good kid. Through all this she has had a few jobs, which she never held onto. I have tried many many many times to try to get her on her feet. I have bought her 2 different used cars over the years, bailed her out when utilities have been shut off. Bought her a new computer because she said she could work online, to find out that she was working on a porn site !! And I have done all this because of the kids. She has tried to kill herself 3 times has been diagnosed with several mental issues, which she refuses to get any help for. And now I get calls from her all the time that just drain me mentally and physically. I cant do anymore for her!!! I refuse to let her move in with me, but i am sooo concerned about the toddler. I am 61 years old and would love to have some peace in my life at this point!!!!