I came to the final conclusion this weekend that I am, indeed, an enabler. ...and I just know that if I don't STOP NOW, we in for a world of more intense, serious hurt. I just hope it's not too late. So..... How to I let go? How do I undo the damage I've done up to this point? How do I deal with the fallout of taking away mom friend and replacing with parent? I'm not even sure I'm mature enough to pull it off.