Thanks JJJ & all.
Raising difficult children is pretty much hooverific. News to you all, I'm sure.
It's just time to batten down hatches, grit teeth, and rattle beads for difficult child. (Maybe change my phone #???? Nah.... tempting as the thought is.)
Everything happens for a reason. I do believe that with all my heart. These hidden reasons are really taking a toll.
I am reminded again that I am so lucky to be traveling this road with you guys. Thank you, truly.