With my difficult child it's World of Warcraft. Our computer is right in the living room, so I'm usually no more than 10 feet away when he plays. At times I'll just read over his shoulder to see what they're saying to each other. I've always stressed how important it is to keep identifying stuff secret and so far so good, but next year high school starts so things might change. I have told him he goes on nothing unless I know his passwords, and that I'll be checking up on anything he does on the computer that's public like WoW, probably even email etc., so I think we won't have a problem (crossing fingers). Who knows what he does if I fall asleep when he's still on there :crazy:, but so far he's never lied to me.