So I have said Difficult Child was removed from soberliving for relapsing with pot. Refused us bringing him home for a week, found "friend" he says is clean and attends mtgs. He moved in with him for 7 days , he plans to return to house in 7 days, test clean then will renter outpatient services. He was 6 mos clean..he did not relapse with drug of choice. So Day1.....in your heart you hope he beats the odds, takes his medications, isnt stupid. He insist he is taking charge of his problem, didnt want to lose part time job..why do these thoughts not occur when he lit up...did not use the tools he has learned. I called sobbing, Im so afraid. He told me to breathe calm down, hes going to do this and had just attended a mtg. We all want hope, but that's not usually what occurs..frozen with grief.