Hi Everyone- Once again I seek counsel from you wise people. I am so angry with-my difficult child that it is difficult for me to have a civil conversation with her. For a couple of months she was basically out of contact, which made things easier. But now she is trying to reconnect with me, which I am finding difficult. She has been so horrible in the past and it is not easy for me to just forget all that and be this friendly mother-daughter. I don't want to break off all contact with her because I want to see KK when possible, but this is very hard. I'm so angry I just want to confront her with: "You did this and that and this....blah,blah,blah." Which I know is pointless as I have done that to no avail so many times over the years. I'm not the best at hiding my feelings and currently I'm just trying to get her to the point of why she called and then get of the phone, but I'm sure I sound angry. Any ideas?