difficult child lives with my ex-husband (we're separated but live close by). I feel so bad for him. difficult child chose to drop out of HS last year by refusing to get out of bed or on bus... He goes several weeks even a month with no shower and doesn't brush teeth. Just today I got email telling me that in a rage demanding junk food he punched a hole in a his brand new bdrm door (replaced from previous hole). He refuses to take medications... And honestly he was the same on medications as not. diagnosis is Pervasive Developmental Disorder (PDD) but I suspect psychosis or sociopath maybe also. He just does TV or video games and eats junk food, and disrespects husband. I told husband ...57... He can't live the rest of his life like this... I made a appointment for me with counselor/Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW),not see how I can emotionally support him better. He is a really good decent Midwest type person and doesn't deserve this daily treatment.