I found a great group of moms locally that get together once in a while. It's an aspergers group. One of the mom's live real close and told me about a gymnastics class at the rec center that she was signing up her son for and thought difficult child would want to as well. Since team sports was too much for him anxiety-wise and he desperately needs exercise (tendancy towards overweight) I signed him up. Well all I hear now is how E is annoying. E pesters him when he's trying to listen. He doesn't like E. Etc. etc. I'm trying to convey to him that we have to practice tolerance and patience but he doesn't get it. He doesn't see that he can be these things at times as well. Though he usually saves the annoying stuff for home. How can he expect tolerance and acceptance when he can't practice them himself? I was just wondering how others difficult child's saw themselves? He's a pretty self centered kid but I know that's part of the package with most of them huh?