difficult child visit impending

Discussion in 'Parent Emeritus' started by Abbey, Apr 2, 2007.

  1. Abbey

    Abbey Spork Queen

    It seems that we are going to see J tomorrow. Not sure if it will actually happen, as he hasn't called in over a week to verify he's still there. I'm nervous, but will give it a try.

  2. sameold sameold

    sameold sameold New Member

    Good luck to you and husband. I am sure you have butterflies in your stomach. I will be thinking of you.
  3. SunnyFlorida

    SunnyFlorida Active Member

    Oh my.....sending strong {{{sunny hugs}}} and cyber smiles. Do the SMOD (thats smile and nod) good for all sorts of answers. :smile:
  4. busywend

    busywend Well-Known Member

    Oh my - this I was not expecting! Good luck to you - remember to stay detached and take no disrespect. Just leave.
  5. Suz

    Suz (the future) MRS. GERE

    Abbey, I'm so pleased to hear that you are going to visit J. I hope it doesn't disappoint. At some point they start to change...don't they? Here's hoping that this show of support helps him turn the corner. I'm nervous and excited for you!

  6. Kathy813

    Kathy813 Well-Known Member Staff Member

    Good luck, Abbey. I'll keep a good thought.

  7. Loris

    Loris New Member

    Hope it all goes well.
  8. ScentofCedar

    ScentofCedar New Member

    I hope he does come, and that the visit goes well.

  9. kris

    kris New Member

    <span style='font-size: 14pt'> <span style='font-family: Georgia'> <span style="color: #333399"> you'll be in my thoughts.

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  10. PonyGirl

    PonyGirl Warrior Parent

    Also keeping good thoughts


  11. Fran

    Fran Former desparate mom

    Fingers crossed.

    I love the smile and nod theory.
  12. everywoman

    everywoman Active Member

    Hope the visit is short and sweet and he has learned something...
  13. Irene_J

    Irene_J Member

    Hope things go well for you and your husband. I'm thinking of you.
  14. Sunlight

    Sunlight Active Member

    how did it go, abbey?
  15. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    I got in on this post a bit late.

    Abbey, how did it go? I hope it went well.

  16. Jen

    Jen New Member

    Abbey have been away from the site for a few weeks, did remeber that J had made contact with you. Hope that all goes well, now and that you see him again.

  17. Abbey

    Abbey Spork Queen

    Well, we still haven't heard from J. That's not a good sign. We've left a few messages at the place he was staying, but no word back. I'll keep you informed.

  18. judi

    judi Active Member

    Sorry for the non-contact. Abbey - I know that ramps up your anxiety that something is wrong.
  19. DDD

    DDD Well-Known Member

    Sending belated support. DDD
  20. ScentofCedar

    ScentofCedar New Member

    I agree that is not a good sign, Abbey.

    Maybe, this time, you will not hear further from difficult child, at all.