He is very well behaved in his foster placement. But school is becoming increasingly difficult for him again. His (female) class teacher has asked for a male teacher to be present as she is afraid of what he will do when he 'blows' again. Last time he blew in school he assaulted a (male) teacher. I can understand her fear, he assaulted me last year (no one helped us then) so its not just males he assaults. School have often refered to him as being like a spring being wound tighter and tigher, one day he will 'go'.. this happens every few weeks (when we can get him to attend) .. hopefully the SW is taking note of all this!!
I have kept all text messages from him and informed SW of what they say. I have the facility on my phone to lock messages so they cannot be erased accidentally.
The reason he cant get home is more that he wont travel alone. He has been independant since the age of 11 and often walks the streets and gets buses and trains with his friends, he just is too lazy to do it alone. I text him last night to ask if he will be at the contact meeting tonight and he said no cos he has no money to get home. He was TOLD by SW to save some money from his weekly allowance for the bus!
Still trying to control us? He knows i wouldnt let him walk anywhere so was maybe trying for us to give him a lift? its supervised contact so we cant anyway.
I have kept all text messages from him and informed SW of what they say. I have the facility on my phone to lock messages so they cannot be erased accidentally.
The reason he cant get home is more that he wont travel alone. He has been independant since the age of 11 and often walks the streets and gets buses and trains with his friends, he just is too lazy to do it alone. I text him last night to ask if he will be at the contact meeting tonight and he said no cos he has no money to get home. He was TOLD by SW to save some money from his weekly allowance for the bus!
Still trying to control us? He knows i wouldnt let him walk anywhere so was maybe trying for us to give him a lift? its supervised contact so we cant anyway.