Ok this is small potatoes in the big scheme of life but it is driving me nuts. Many of you may remember my post about Xmas and Jamies pregnant girlfriend and how she had a fit about his gifts. I never said anything much to her about it...she did try to draw me into it by trying to get me to agree with her that he didnt listen well but I just said that I wasnt getting into the middle of their problems because they would work them out. Well they left early the next morning. I have not spoken to her since. That was mid december. Normally she would have called and at least spoken to me or jamies dad. Maybe not very often but I did have a birthday in mid january. They went to have a sonogram done on my birthday but the baby was too small to tell the sex. They emailed me the pics and I responded by email. Jamie talked to his dad on the phone. I set up a myspace account so I could keep up with them because she through this fit and decided she wasnt moving down here even though that was what Jamie wanted and he even had a job offer. Ok...I didnt say a word. We were even going to let them stay in our house rent free so they could save for a house and we could travel with work for husband. She was fine with it until xmas. Oh well...I keep my mouth shut. About two weeks ago after we saw the babys sonogram I saw something on freecycle. Jamie and his dad keep saying they think this baby is a boy because of the size of the baby. Well this person was giving away a brand new in the package diaper bag set and bath set. I went and picked it up. Its adorable. I sent a message out on myspace to both Jamie and the girlfriend telling them about getting these things from freecycle...I said..."hey guys...got the baby its first freecycle stuff today" and I told them what it was. I even said it was brand new in the packages. I HAVE HAD NO RESPONSE WHATSOEVER FROM EITHER OF THEM! I am ticked. I know they got the messages...My other son who lives with them told me they did. He wouldnt tell me what they said. Now I wonder if "her highness" thinks second hand stuff is too good for her child? Wasnt too good for Keyana. One thing I have to give to Cory and Lindsey...they have always been tickled to death with my finds. I dont know why Jamie would act this way...he sure didnt grow up that way...and from what I know about her, she grew up working poor. This has really hurt my feelings and if something doesnt happen, I wont be doing much looking for stuff for this kid. Be a shame if because of this girl I dont have much of a relationship with this grandchild...but Im actually expecting that to happen. Corys kids will be the ones we end up closer to because we will live in closer proximity to them. But...if they think we can buy new stuff for their kids when we didnt buy it for Corys...well that simply isnt fair either. I dont like feeling I am being put in this position. I already am worried because her mom is planning a baby shower in the spring...something that wasnt done for Cory and I know it may cause hard feelings. Ugh.