After getting lost in the country trying to find this place, I called them to get better directions than my gps and they told me they were getting difficult child next Monday. I was very confused and so were they. They said they called the jail yesterday and the jail said her paperwork said the 29th. But when I got there there were three ladies out front all talking about M and seemed kind of frantic so I asked what was going on and one lady introduced herself to me as the one I have been talking to and said she was off to get M! She said the jail had just called them asking where they were because they were supposed to pick her up. As I was talking to her, she said she was reviewing M's case and is absolutely shocked at how long they were able to hold her on the petty charges that she had. She said it was definitely God's work...I believe that, too. I don't think Connor was meant to go to rehab with her. I think that is why everything worked out the way it did. So, all is done. They have the car - they said they were accepting the car as payment for treatment (so I am not sure if she will be expected to pay more later or what, they didn't say that it covered a portion of treatment only that they were accepting it as payment) and that she would be on lockdown for 30 days. After her 30 days are up, I will get a phone call on the Thursday before visitation on Saturdays. Family counseling is directly after visitation which I definitely do plan on attending. I want to learn how not to enable her. I still want therapy on my own, though. I need someone to just purge on... When they got her, difficult child was able to send me a text thanking me for being her rock and that having even just a little hope for her meant a whole ton. So the rest is on her. This is her journey. But I am breathing a big sigh of relief and it is nice knowing she is exactly where she needs to be now... and it is SO nice not seeing that hunk of junk outside!!!