My daughter Jumper will be 21 very soon. She is VERY mature, stable and respondible...not silly at all. In a year, she will be a cop. I tell you this so you have a feel for her. She has never caused us one day of trouble and her and her boyfriend, on top of hub, were rocks for me after my accident. Her boyfrien is 25, finished school, has a good job for the city, also never been in trouble, saves money, is uber calm and kind. His whole famjly is that way. I was with.the two of them all weeked (we all had a room together while in Chicago to visit Princess snd Baby..i know it may sound weird but we had two beds snd everyone wore sweats...lol) and I got to see how they interact and they.just.flow. Both.his mom and I believed a while ago that this will go all the way. His family loves her. We love him. She was looking at engagrment rings with him in Chicago. They talk often about their future. She is only going to be 21. And, to be fair, she has said she wont marry until out of school and doesnt want kids for a few years. She is only 21. Almost. They plan to travel a lot this summer. I 100% trust him with her. They dont scresm and yell or have drama. Jumper isnt drama and he isnt either. Very emotionally mature...moreso thanany adults. She is only 21. Almost. I married at 20, but not for love and i knew it would be a disaster from Day One and 17 years later I filed for divorce. I have a good feeling about Jumper and N. Shes young, but always knew what she wanted and did it. Their financial situation is good. I cant stop them and wouldnt try. Why am I both happy and sad? I really love her boyfriend like another son. Husband and he get along great, have gone shooting together. Husband took a day off once to totslly fix his car. He tried to pay. Husband said no. Its as perfect as it can be except for her age. They have known each other forever, dated and have been inseperable for two years. This is actually my first potential kid wedding I will be a part of. Bart and ex eloped. Goneboy and his girlfriennd did it 100% alone. Princess never married her SO of twelve years and doesnt feel a piece of paper matters. I am not really nervous...and I am. I feel and his mother feels they are perfect for each other. His father does too and they stay there often when they visit from Jumpers college town because they have a big house. We just have an apartment. Our families get along well. I have a very good feeling about them.. But i am still a little skittish. Shes my youngest, my baby. Yet so very mature and stable and we are very close. I see tbe good in this. Everyone does. Neither of them were wild or serial daters. This young man is stable, steady, and lived in a close, intact family his whole life. Am I crazy lol???