We ended up having AAA tow my sons car to the nearest auto mechanic on Friday because he still couldn't get it started and my boyfriend and I have been driving him back and forth to work, 2nd shift, 1/2 hour away from where he lives. He's on the suboxone, working 6 days a week, paying for this hotel and seems to be making the right decisions right now. They got it started right away, but difficult child mentioned something about the front end shaking so bad he can't go over 40 on the highway, so they checked that out and his car is very dangerous to drive and needs about $950 worth of work to make it safe. boyfriend and I agreed to split the cost to get it fixed because difficult child has to get to work to continue to stay on the right track, which he seems to want to do. My ex was away for the week and when he came back I told him what is going on with the car and asked if he would be willing to contribute anything to the car repair. His reply, no, I'm not going to enable him!! Isn't enabling when you help somebody to make the wrong choices????? I asked him if he would at least be willing to pick him up at midnight on Monday and Tuesday because his car will be done on Wednesday because my boyfriend has been doing it all last week and he said, yeah I guess I can do that. How big of him!! God am I glad I'm not married to him anymore!!