I got a call from my ex. He was obviously drunk and feeling guilty. He wants me to tell difficult child that when she gets out of jail he would let her stay in the empty apt on his mother's property for a couple months if she is willing to get up everyday at 7am and work and she has to break up with current boyfriend that we all hate. I seriously don't think difficult child would work for him or get a job and he admits beating her the last time she stayed with him. She would have to be really desperate to have anything to do with him at all unless he's offering her something with no strings attached. He thinks she will end up dead if we don't help her somehow because she is so screwed up. I'm thinking I'm not going to tell her anything about the ex's offer. The fact remains that she is homeless and has no where to go once she is out of jail. She can't go to the womens homeless shelter because that's where she was when she was accused of stealing in the first place. Where do you think she might be able to go? A different homeless shelter? Her only plan is to hop on a bus and leave the state and be homeless in the state where her boyfriend lives so she can at least see him but she still has no ID, no soc sec card, no birth certificate, nothing but a storage unit full of clothes and toys that she has to pay $50 a month for. She's been asking her paternal Grandma to use her savings bond money to pay for that.