We have had a pretty good visit with our son. He seems to want to move forward with his life and to stay sober so there is hope. However I am feeling sad for him, the path he has been on...and feeling some regret that I somehow did not see the seriousness of it all when it started when he was in 7 th grade. Fact is we got him therapy but I don't think he was open to it...so I am not sure what I could have done differently...but I do feel I missed some things and am feeling that wish for a do over....and none of this regret is helpful at all! It will be good to get home and back to my own life!