<span style="color: #3366FF"> </span> <span style='font-family: Century Gothic'> </span> <span style='font-size: 14pt'> </span> Okay, for those of us who have difficult children who don't want a relationship, what do you do? 1. When asked about my kids, I gloss over the bad stuff and pretend. 2. For family members, I tell them I honestly don't know what my son is doing or thinking. 3. His son's mother (whom we have a good relationship with) will sometimes ask if we have contact with our son. We don't get in the middle of this one - we always say no we haven't talked with him. It is so hard in the end - nothing is ever easy with these kids.