so i gotta head upstate tmrw. he's my stepfather's dad. iv'e known my stepfather since i'm a kid as well as his dad, who i call pop pop. haven't seen him in a while though. my stepfather emailed me the hospital name, and addy. so i feel it's the right thing to do. my brother and my 2 stepbrothers are heading there tmrw to say good bye to him as well as my stepfather. so only problem i gotta bring difficult child. she obviously doesnt' deal well with this. was supposed to go to sister in laws to see new baby, yet what can i do? hospital called today and announced he only has a day or so left. difficult child's been an emotional mess all day today she has a bad cold and well you knwo what that's like a difficult child with a cold. i didnt' get to say good bye to my grandmother i was super close to, or my father who passed last year. i just feel so obligated to do the right thing here right??