hi so we're leaving at 11 p.m. when husband gets home for upstate, my grandfather's funeral is in the a.m. up there. husband thought it would be better for difficult child if we headed up tonite..... we couldnt' picture her being able to be dressed and ready to go by 6 a.m. tmrw. so at least there we'll get some sleep before the service begins at 9:30. it's about 2 half hours from us, and difficult child yes is manic. lol. i said baby its a funeral. "yes but i am very excited about not having to go to bed", and sleeping at a hotel. ahhh kids........ so i'll check in with-everyone in tuesday.