You do! And we will be right here with you, every step of the way. Pain and suffering are part of life as is joy. They are two sides of the same coin. Because we feel pain this minute, does not mean we will feel it the next. We can learn equanimity. To find that place in us that is strong, above the fray. I think that is one way that this site helps us, those that are already stronger show us that it's possible to find another way, that we deserve it. That it is our right to be content, satisfied, even happy. We don't have to hang out in those psychic pits, where we often are, when we arrive here. I am glad you are here with us.I now feel I have options to explore.