I am new here, and I have a 6 year old daughter who was diagnosed with ADHD, anxiety, and oppositional defiance disorder. I don't know a lot about these conditions, but I do know I am losing this battle. I have come to the end of my rope and don't know where to turn. Her school counselors say she is fine, her regular counsoler said she didn't need more help and cut her loose. I can't go a single day without a battle over everything. I could tell her we were having ice cream for dinner and she would argue with me. I have two boys as well, almost 2 and almost 3, I am a student and I work as well. I am married but my husband is gone a lot. I have scheduled my daughter for yet another appointment with the behavioral pediatrician, and an intake appointment with a new counsoler. So far my daughter is not on medications, but it seems to be fast coming to that point, although I don't think these episodes have anything to do with ADHD, more the ODD but again, I do not know enough about this problem. Any help will be appreciated.