What do you do when your 6 year old yells in your face "NO" whenever you ask her to do anything at all? Then she hits her 3 year old sister and screams at the top of her lungs for an hour. husband says I need to be calm and give her consequences. Well that doesn't work for her or me. When I'm calm and give her consequences, she just yells in my face again and screams. I put her in her room and she throws and breaks things. She doesn't do this for my husband. So today he tells her that if she is bad for me and I have to call him at work, her birthday party (which is planned, paid for and everyone is coming) will be cancelled. So again, I will be the bad mom. She doesn't deserve a party. What can I do? I do want to be around my child right now. I know this is a vent, but I need SOMETHING. Advice, understanding, whatever. I am at the end of my rope and feel like I am going to explode.