so, i've watched difficult child slowly cut down food yet again......... easy child has found spit up food in bathroom sinks and toilet bowls and clued me in. licked pretzels and chips around house and other foods she's licking. today for example she had two spoonfulls of farina, and half a slice of pizza. that's it. we began refeeding therapist again last week. which she feels its' difficult child other issues and really needs a super strong therapist and i think this new woman we started with will be able to help her she's really aggressive. yet insurance co. is fighting giving us approval so ex h is working with them and fighting it. we're exploring diff medications didnt' start risperdal because side effect is anxiety, psychdoc missed that and dont' wanna chance it. there's more going on in that head of her's, refeeding woman thinks i'Tourette's Syndrome her bipolar junk getting in the way of it now. who knows won't begin to guess. attention has also shifted since the restart of food entering her mouth, and difficult child is always desperate for any attention at all. so who really knows what's up with her. other than beginning again on solutions. yet a bit wiser this time and calmer than first round. sad though....... thought she was on her way, had mtg set up as per difficult child's request to meet with-school monday about slow transition back since she's been doing so well with tutors. she fights tooth and nail for them to come yet once they do she's compliant and has been acing every single test. who knows mix of it all fear of school even though wants to go back, etc. a professional has to deal with-her not me.