heres my story i have been playing the mom role for 5 years now for an 11 year old boy. I am engaged to his father and there have been having problems since before I came in the picture. His bio mother has not been a part of his life since he was about 3. He has seen so many different therapists and medicine doctors, has been on so many different medications. Nothing seems to work for him. He lies consistently, is horribly disrespectful, has no remorse, will do what he wants when he wants, starts fights in school and with kids in the neighborhood, wont do homework or will half do it. We have recently taken him off medication because after meeting with his doctor we feel it is not doing anything for him. He has been diagnosed adhd then bipolar and now ODD. We cant punish him because nothing works he doesnt care. School is giving us a hard time because he is off medication. I tried explaining to them that all the behaviors that they are dealing with are not because he is off medications, these are all repeat behaviors and his "honeymoon period" is over, he is now comfortable this is what happens. He is in a 8-1-2 Special Education program he has an IEP. Im so struggling. Any suggestions?