Thank you for your replies. difficult child called last night and I told her I was glad to get her ltr and then I basically told her what I told you guys.
Cedar, in her ltr, she basically said said she was getting her thoughts out and down. That is a first.
COM, any other jail visits for her have been shorter and she spent her time plotting how to get out. This is the first time she has ever had to face no bond, no way out. Maybe that makes you really have to face what you have done.
The only irritating thing difficult child is doing, and it is minor in the whole scheme of things, is talking to this man she spent the summer with. She used him, but apparently he loved the way she took care of him, his house, children, etc. Now, she stole from him and his parents, so I really dont get it. He is 42, she is almost 30 (abt 18 emotionally). He apparently told her "he misses her and loves her". Yuck. We have had to meet him and have contact bc he has shipped her stuff to us. He actually told husband that "no one took care of him like difficult child". Really.....no one stole from and lied to him like her either! I think she talks with him to pass time and he put $$ on her comissary. He cant see her, and I really think she doesnt want to. Anyway, her decision not mine. I think in tx he will become a memory.
Oh, one funny thing abt this guy. Over the summer when she was on meth and I had the police pick her up, I txted him (had no idea abt him, just knew his name from difficult child ex husband) and asked him to not do drugs with her, said she was an addict, etc. HE CALLED ME A LIAR! Told me she didnt use, etc. Neeless to say, I did not care for him at all! difficult children really pick people they can fool, charm, etc. I dont know what that "gift" is but I know if I forged a $5.00 check, I would be caught at the cash register! She did thousands before being caught! It seems to be some type of talent, for lack of a better word. She shoplifted a flat sceen TV at Walmart and the manager helped put it in her car!!! Craaaazy!!!
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